🌸 How Female Hormones Impact Anxiety & Confidence
- Claire King
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Claire King is a Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapist and emotional eating and menopause-informed coach based in Norfolk, UK. She specialises in supporting women with anxiety, emotional eating, confidence issues, hormone-related emotional changes, and phobias using evidence-based Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy (CBH).
🚺 Why Hormones Affect Your Mind as Much as Your Body
When we think of hormones, we often think of physical symptoms: hot flushes, night sweats, fatigue. But hormones like oestrogen and progesterone also directly affect your brain chemistry.
Oestrogen helps regulate serotonin and dopamine which are the “feel-good” chemicals that lift mood and keep anxiety in check.
Progesterone has a calming, soothing effect, supporting better sleep and emotional steadiness.
So when these hormones begin to fluctuate during perimenopause and menopause, your brain and nervous system feel the impact too.
🌿 How Hormonal Shifts Can Trigger Anxiety
Many women describe anxiety “appearing out of nowhere” in their 40s and 50s, even if they’ve never struggled before. Hormonal changes can lead to:
Racing heart or palpitations that mimic panic attacks
Restlessness and irritability that feel hard to control
Tearfulness or sudden mood swings
Poor sleep, which makes anxious thinking worse
Loss of confidence in situations that used to feel easy
It’s not “all in your head.” It’s your body and mind reacting to a changing chemical environment.
The Confidence Connection
Hormones don’t just influence anxiety they also shape how confident we feel.
You might notice yourself second-guessing decisions at work, holding back from opportunities, or cancelling plans because you “don’t feel like yourself.”
This dip in confidence is not a character flaw. It’s a ripple effect of hormone changes impacting mood, sleep, focus, and energy. Over time, this can make even capable women doubt their abilities.
🌸 Practical Ways to Support Yourself
The good news? There are effective steps you can take to calm anxiety and rebuild confidence while your hormones shift.
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Nervous System Soothing
Breathing techniques, progressive relaxation, or guided hypnosis can calm physical anxiety symptoms.
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Mindset Tools
CBT strategies help you spot unhelpful thought spirals and replace them with more balanced, empowering perspectives.
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Lifestyle Support
Prioritise sleep hygiene, gentle exercise, and a nutrient-rich diet (including Omega 3s for brain health).
Reduce smoking, alcohol and caffeine, which can heighten anxiety.
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Therapeutic Support
Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy (CBH) works on both conscious and subconscious levels to reduce anxious patterns and restore calm.
🌿 Final Thoughts
Hormonal shifts don’t make you weak. They highlight the very real link between body and mind and why supporting both is so important.
By learning practical tools for your thoughts, body, and nervous system, you can reduce anxiety and reclaim the confidence that hormone changes may have shaken.
✨ Call to Action
👉 If anxiety and hormone changes are impacting your life, you don’t have to push through alone. My Confidently You programme combines CBH, hormone coaching, and lifestyle support to help you feel calmer, more confident, and back in control.
💚 Book a free discovery call here: theunclutteredmind.setmore.com